Tessa Vance

ADHD coach and advocate

THE 30-DAY ADHD BEHAVIOR BREAKTHROUGH SYSTEM

How To Transform Your Child's Daily Meltdowns Into Manageable Moments In Just 4 Weeks

(even if you've tried every sticker chart, consequence, and reward system out there)

The System That's Transforming Exhausted, Triggered Parents Into Confident ADHD Advocates In Just 30 Days

"Every behavior is triggering me and I don't know how to handle it"

I'll never forget the morning my 7-year-old daughter threw herself on the floor, screaming and kicking, because I asked her to put on her socks.

Just six months ago, I was the mom sobbing in my car after another hellish morning routine. My bright, creative child who thrives at school turned into a completely different person at home - and I was drowning.

I felt like a complete failure.

Now my daily struggle with her ADHD included:

Epic meltdowns over the smallest things - a drawing that didn't turn out right, bedtime, brushing teeth

Being late to school EVERY. SINGLE. MORNING. because of behavior battles

Constant interrupting, yelling, and inability to sit still for more than 10 minutes

Walking on eggshells, never knowing what would trigger the next explosion

Feeling utterly alone because she was an "angel" at school - no one believed how bad it really was

I was at the absolute end of my empathy, just letting her freak out because I didn't know what else to do.

I tried everything the experts suggested:

Sticker charts and reward systems (worked for 2 days max before she stopped caring)

Taking things away as consequences (she didn't care about any punishment)

Morning and night routine charts (worked for a week with pushing, eventually ignored them completely)

Giving choices and warnings (led to bigger meltdowns)

Occupational therapy and play therapy (helped a little but behaviors varied at home)

I was constantly on her to be quieter, stop interrupting, do the thing I'd repeated 5+ times... I was becoming her worst enemy and her, mine.

Then I Discovered Something That Changed Everything...

After connecting with over 500 parents in online ADHD support groups and working with specialists who actually understood the unique challenges we face, I uncovered a pattern.

What I learned shocked me:


According to research from leading ADHD specialists, 70% of ADHD children exhibit their worst behaviors exclusively at home:

Home is their "safe space" where they release all the energy they've been masking at school

Traditional parenting approaches actually make ADHD behaviors WORSE

The emotional dysregulation we see isn't defiance - it's neurological overwhelm

Parents are unknowingly reinforcing the very behaviors they're trying to stop

But most alarming of all:

Most parents are accidentally creating a toxic cycle of shame and failure by treating ADHD behaviors like discipline problems.

I know because I was making all these same mistakes...

Through extensive research and consultation with:

[Child psychiatrists specializing in ADHD

Occupational therapists trained in sensory processing

Parents who've successfully navigated these exact challenges

I discovered WHY traditional approaches fail - and more importantly, what actually works.

I call it "the ADHD Behavior Breakthrough System"

By understanding the neurological differences in our kids' brains and adapting our approach accordingly, I was able to:

Reduce morning & afternoon battles from 45 minutes to 10 minutes

Help my daughter self-regulate WITHOUT constant reminders

Create predictable routines that actually stick

Stay calm during meltdowns (most of the time!)

Finally feel like a capable parent instead of a failure

After helping 250+ other exhausted ADHD parents replicate these results, I've refined this system into a step-by-step method that anyone can use...

...even if nothing else has worked before.

But don't take my word for it.

Listen to these happy parents:

"The 'connection before correction' thing actually works. We have way fewer meltdowns now and i feel like a much better mum"

"My kid still has ADHD obviously. But now I get how his brain works and don't fight it constantly.

House is way calmer for both the boys. "

"Used to take us like an hour every morning just to get out the door.

Now it's maybe 10 minutes of whining instead of full-blown war. Still not fun but we'll take it."

"When I finally understood her brain literally CAN'T do certain things, I stopped taking it personally.

That alone made everything easier so i work to her strengths now."

The 4 Essential Skills ADHD Parents Need (That Traditional Parenting Books Don't Teach)

THE SKILLS THAT SEPARATE SURVIVING FROM THRIVING

Emotional Regulation Mastery: Understanding your own triggers and responses - because you can't pour from an empty cup (without this, you'll keep losing your patience and feeling guilty)

Neurological Awareness: Recognizing ADHD behaviors as brain-based, not character flaws - this changes everything about how you respond (without this, you'll keep using ineffective discipline)

Environmental Engineering: Creating spaces and routines that work WITH your child's brain - not against it (without this, every day remains a battlefield)

Connection Before Correction: Building trust during calm moments to weather the storms - this is your secret weapon (without this, you're just another source of stress for your child)

INSTANT ACCESS - START YOUR TRANSFORMATION TODAY

Here's Everything You Get With The ADHD Behavior Breakthrough System Today!

What's included:

The Complete ADHD Behavior Breakthrough System: 5 comprehensive modules that decode your child's behaviors and give you practical, proven strategies

🎁 Plus These 5 Game-Changing Bonuses 🎁

"The Morning Routine Revolution" - Turn your chaos into calm with visual schedules and sensory-smart strategies that actually work for ADHD brains

"The Meltdown Emergency Toolkit" - Your in-the-moment survival guide with 15 de-escalation techniques you can use immediately

"The School Communication Script Library" - Exactly what to say to teachers who "don't see the behaviors" to finally get the support you need

"The Medication Decision Guide" - Unbiased information to help you make the right choice for YOUR family (whether you choose meds or not)

"The Self-Care Survival Plan for ADHD Parents" - Because you can't help them if you're drowning (includes quick recharge techniques for overwhelmed parents)

Normally: $247

Today: $24

BEFORE AND AFTER

The Transformation You Can Expect

Don't let ADHD behaviors continue dominating your family life. Your home can be peaceful (well, mostly peaceful) - you just need the right system to make it happen.

Before The ADHD Behavior Breakthrough:

❌ Dreading mornings and bedtimes

❌ Feeling like a failure as a parent

❌ Walking on eggshells constantly

❌ Yelling more than you want to admit

❌ Exhausted and at your wit's end

❌ Isolated because "no one understands"

After The ADHDBehavior Breakthrough:

✓ Predictable routines that reduce daily battles

✓ Confidence in your parenting abilities

✓Understanding what triggers behaviors

✓ Staying calm(er) during challenging moments

✓ Energy to actually enjoy your child

✓ Connected to a community that gets it

YOUR BREAKTHROUGH PATH BEGINS HERE

The 5 Modules That Transform Your ADHD Parenting:

Each module precisely designed to address the real challenges you face through proven, ADHD-specific strategies.

Module 1:

Decode Your Child's Behaviours (Week 1)

Finally understand what's really happening in your child's brain - this foundational knowledge helps you respond with empathy instead of frustration.

The neuroscience behind "perfect at school, nightmare at home"

Why traditional consequences backfire with ADHD kids

How to identify your child's specific triggers and patterns

Module 2:

Create Your Calm-Down Toolkit (Week 1-2)

Build your arsenal of strategies that actually work - our proven techniques help you de-escalate situations before they explode.

15 sensory regulation techniques that stop meltdowns

The "connection before correction" method that builds cooperation

Emergency scripts for when you're about to lose it

Module 3:
Design ADHD-Friendly Routines (Week 2-3)

Transform your daily battles into smooth(er) transitions - our visual systems help your child succeed independently.

Morning routines that get you out the door on time

Homework strategies that reduce fights and tears

Bedtime approaches that actually lead to sleep

Module 4:
Master Communication Strategies (Week 3-4)

Learn how to talk so your ADHD child will listen - our methods help you give instructions that stick.

The "one instruction rule" that prevents overwhelm

How to handle interrupting without constant correction

Getting school support when teachers "don't see it"

Module 5:
Build Your Support System (Ongoing)

Create the village you need to thrive - our community approach ensures you never feel alone again.

Scripts for explaining ADHD to family members who don't get it

How to advocate for your child without apologizing

Self-care strategies that aren't just "take a bubble bath"

You Deserve Peace In Your Home

Get The ADHD Behavior Breakthrough Now

While other parents struggle with daily meltdowns and morning chaos, you'll be confidently managing behaviors using our proven system.

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Please understand results are not definite. Your results will vary and depend on many factors including but not limited to your background, experience, and commitment level.

All parenting strategies require consistent effort and action. This sales page directly addresses the specific pain points mentioned repeatedly in the Reddit threads - the exhaustion, the "perfect at school/nightmare at home" phenomenon, failed traditional approaches, and the feeling of being a failure as a parent.

The language mirrors how these parents actually talk about their struggles, making it highly relatable and authentic.